Choose your education based on your interests. Don’t follow the crowd.
~~ I don’t know why on earth I decided to be in the marketing or management field. Not that I hate it, but it is definitely not my first love. Honestly, a year back I did not even know what made my heart tick. Unfortunately, when I was making career and education choices, I was going through a huge personal turmoil and had no mentor who could instill a macro perspective in me.
I had huge love for arts and psychology but I picked commerce in school because my friends were picking that specialization. I still remember a brief discussion with my best friend in school about taking up psychology. We both loved it but did not take it up for some silly reasons like it is uncool, our gang is taking commerce or who takes arts??.
Any way, current status is that I recently finished a certification course from University of Maryland in Psychology and I am pursuing a degree course in Master In Psychology from IGNOU. I also take online counselling sessions on Wizpert to help people sort out issues. In addition to that, I am planning to start my own business in life skills training (WIP) to deal with issues that inhibit our personal and professional growth.
Learning: It is never too late to start. So go out there and take the first step toward what you love to do. Scale does not matter. Even if you decide to do it for free, you will learn a lot and it will give you ideas to generate profitable solutions.
Love is a very rare and magical emotion. Don’t waste it.
Come…fall in love, tagline of a very famous romantic Hindi movie. Bollywood turns all of us into maniacs looking for love in any Raj, Prem or Simran. The funny thing is that most of our love stories are more like fiction novels than real life stories.
Did you notice how she smiled at me? I think she likes me!!
You know something. He writes take care in each text? I think he cares about me!!
Did you see he liked my picture on Facebook? He definitely loves me!!!!
Love is pure. Love is happiness. Love is growth. Love is peace.
If your love is not any of this, get out now. To find love and create strong bonds, first learn to LOVE YOURSELF and create connection with your inner self.
If someone tells you that love is an emotion of the past or love does not exist , please suggest a shrink to them. They need help as they are too afraid to be vulnerable and to live life to the fullest. So yes , a quick call to a shrink is mandatory.
Learning: Believe in love. Believe in the power of love and its sheer magic. Have faith. If you really want to find love, start your journey of self discovery . On a random day when you are least expecting, you will bump into love in a true Bollywood style!!
Men are from Mars. Women are from Venus. And that is absolutely okay.
Most of the relationship issues we face in life are because of our intrinsic gender differences.
Think of relationship as a jigsaw puzzle where the woman is the left side of the puzzle pieces and the man is the right side of the puzzle pieces. Each piece is different, yet absolutely relevant to figure out the puzzle called life. If all the pieces are similar, the puzzle would remain an unsolved mystery.
Learning: Celebrate differences. Your life is beautiful because you two bring different attributes to make your relationship complete.
What are the things that you wish you had known earlier in life? Would love to hear your perspective!!
P.S: Please read the book, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. It is a great wedding gift too. 🙂